Wednesday, March 28, 2012

Be a Creativity Rock Star!

You hear the writing becoming stale, stilted. You begin talking about good days, bad days, taking it day by day. You hear yourself get worse, you feel the slump coming, you see the slow-motion crawl of the yet-again-struggle.

Dudes? We are writers. We are not aging athletes. We're not superstars watching our skills fail with grief and old age. We sit at a desk. Practice makes perfect. This is supposed to be easier. It's getting better all the time? Right?

Yet creativity is an animal, a living breathing creature that grows, chases, or hides. Creativity feels like something we can't control, yet we need it to work, to make a living, TO DO OUR JOB.

So how do we get creative? Let's get it.
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HOW TO BE CREATIVE:
ROCK STAR ADVICE FROM AN ACTUAL ROCK STAR
(Me)

1. Call yourself a rock star. Seriously. You can do no wrong. You rule the universe.

2. Read, read, read. Give yourself a one-person MFA. Read everything. All the time. No excuses. That hour you spend reading will always pay off.

3. Rest. At the end of the day (and never say this if you are not specifically referring to bed time!!! Aargh! Don't say, "At the end of the day!" Don't! Sigh.) When your day is finished, or even if it's not finished, but you're exhausted and it's dark outside, just go to sleep. You are not creative when you are an exhausted zombie.

4. Take a day off. Each week, no excuses, take one whole day off and do no work. Visit, rest, read, be. Don't even think about working. You need to practice turning off the creativity faucet so you can practice turning it back on.

5. Go somewhere. Go for a walk. Go to the coffee shop. Go to the woods. Get thee to a MegaBus! (So cheap! Seriously! Do it!) I don't care where you go. Just change your daily point of view.

6. Get high. (No, not like that. Drugs are bad, mkay?) Climb a mountain, go to the roof. Everything looks different from the top of the world.
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7. Be creative in a different field. Paint. Cook. Draw. Do something outside of your comfort zone and stretch your horizons.

8. Stare at something. Just look at it. Study a thing until you see it in a different way. Write what you see.

9. Talk to someone you wouldn't normally talk to. Ask questions. Be kind, but keep asking as long as they are willing to talk.

10. Ask someone how they do their job. Ask someone interesting, duh. (Single ladies, use this as an excuse to talk to some fire fighters, amirite?)

11. Change one thing. Shave half your hair. Buy crazy shoes. Wear something ridiculously red.

12. See how many days you can go without spending money. See what's in your pantry. See what's in your closet. Change the way you look at shopping and consuming.

13. Dance.

14. Movies with subtitles. Watch all of the movies with subtitles! I love these things. I always feel quite refined and smarty-pants every time I watch one.

15. Exercise outside. (Don't eat your way through a creative slump.) Get some air. Push yourself. Show YOU what you are capable of.

16. Say no. The next time someone asks you to bake, join, or donate, just say no. No excuses. No reasons. Practice with me. "No, thank you." Your no becomes powerful as you stop hemming and hawing your way through defending your own life.

17. Say yes. If you usually turn things down, dare to do something different! Once, I had a policy that I said YES! to every life opportunity, and who boy, was that fun year. You learning things by saying yes to life.

18. Listen to something new. Spend ten minutes looking for new music. No musical ruts, not for creative rock stars!

19. Argue with someone you can't convince. Try. Keep growing in your persuasive powers.

20. Watch this amazing Ted Talk!


21. Who is the most creative person you know? Ask them about their current project.

22. Turn off the electronics. You are a creator, not a consumer.

23. See something live. Music, plays, shows... mimes? Yeah. Mimes.

What do you do to stay creative?

The world is made for people who aren't cursed with self awareness.


It's baseball season, so all thoughts are turning to Annie, our favorite part-time community college English teacher. Duh.

This is my last semester of teaching. Two jobs = one too many. I'm trying to finish up this degree, so I'm taking a break.

If you are considering teaching, I'll tell you what teaching gives you. Teaching takes away your fear. Teaching, putting yourself out there, being in front of a large group of people who don't want to be in the room, makes you able to do anything you want. Winning students over? That's a high that administrators and education professors don't tell you about. Teaching students the importance of writing, teaching them the power of words, watching them learn... there's no amount of money that competes with that.

I had a presentation in grad school class the other day, and when I finished my professor said, "You are a natural teacher!" And of course I let it go to my head, and I'm still bragging about it to you.

However, quietly, to myself, I laughed because it is the opposite of true. I'm not a natural teacher. I was just 1. excited about what I was talking about and 2. wasn't scared to be in front of the room... two gifts that teaching gave me.

I can't say I'll miss it yet. Right now, I'm tired and ready for grad school to be over. Four thousand years down, four thousand years to go.

I took my own advice about quitting one thing. You should try it. Find one thing to quit.

What can you quit today?
In three months?
In six months?

Tuesday, March 20, 2012

I Was Born to Laugh

Last night, I spoke at an event at my school called REAL. Real life. Real stories. Real friendship.

I was shaking and terrified. I stood up... OK, I was sitting, but I was standing up on the inside, and told a very real, very scary story. Dudes? PEOPLE know my secrets. (Well, readers of this here blog know A LOT of my secrets, but you know... this was people I work with... people I have to see every day and pretend to be a professional in front of. Grammar. I know. Shut up.)

 Anyway. I told a story. I felt like I was a Scared Straight criminal trying to warn kids away from a life a crime. "Look at me, kids. Look at my orange jumpsuit. Crack is whack." I've never done crack. What am I saying. 

Oh, yes. The next day, I was suffering from a vulnerability hangover. I did not want to see ANYONE. And my friend, Amy, called me in to her office and says this. "I have this extra CD, and I've been praying about who to give it to, and God told me you should have it. It's A Drunkard's Prayer by Over the Rhine. I think you would like the song called 'Born.'"

She had no idea I'd written about the song. She had no idea I call it my theme song. She had no idea it fills  the "About Me" section of most of my social media sites. She had no idea despite loving it with all my heart, I still never actually owned it.

"Amy, do you know what this album means to me!?"
"I didn't, but God did, and He wanted you to have it because he loves you."

In the middle of my mess, God found a tiny thing to show me He loves me. It is so tiny, it's hard to sit here and describe how a silly little CD changed my whole life today. But it did.

P.S. There is a lot of power in the truth: freedom for you, authenticity in your relationships with everyone around you.

P.P.S. After being real with people, the very next morning I covered back up with a very fake hair color. But I'm still loved. Underneath, see.

Tuesday, March 13, 2012

Happy Makes Me a Modern Girl

Today was a great day.

Can I tell you something? I want to frame the good days. Replay them. Rewind, rewatch, rewind. replay.

The good days remind me that the bad days don't last forever.

Ya know?

The bad days don't last forever.

They come, they go.

They always go.


Sunday, March 11, 2012

Big Dreams All Looking Pretty: Part Two

In case you missed it, here is Part One. Today is just pictures. Hey. Happy Monday. I'm pretending I'm in New York. Where are you pretending to be?
Today, I'm pretending it's a Monday morning in Central Park.

Pretending I live here.

Tiny New York. Tiny Tennessee.
30 Rock. Like the TV show, only lovelier.

GIANT LEONARD COHEN SAYS "HELLO."
Brooklyn, Brooklyn Take Me In
Have a happy week, kids.

Thursday, March 8, 2012

Three Things Thursday: Roll On By

Here are three cool things I found while life was rolling along.

Stop Writing on the Internet to Make People Love You. Word.

Making Lists and Dreaming Big. I love both of these things. If I could make lists and dream for a living, I... would... make lists and dream for a living.

To Speed Up the Creative Process, Slow Down. Find space in your day.

And a bonus or two or three:

Get a free online education. Learn stuff. Get smarts.

WATCH THIS. Science, y'all.


What are your three things?


Tuesday, March 6, 2012

Simple: What More Can I Say?

Breathe.

Inhale. Exhale.

Rest.

Then try again.

Don't quit.

Speak the truth.

Be brave.

Stop waiting to be called on.

Just go.

Sunday, March 4, 2012

Big Dreams All Looking Pretty: Part One


In 1999, Party of Five did a spin-off called Time of Your Life. I never watched a single Party of Five episode, but after seeing a preview for Time of Your Life, I decided I had to watch every episode. I did, too. Why? Because Jennifer Love Hewitt was going to New York! It was very dramatic.

She was praised for her fashion sense! Because she wore a lot of layers! Because she couldn't afford a coat! Because New York is expensive!

Her landlady was sick! So sick she passed out! So Love threw her in a cab and forced her to the hospital! But she didn't have insurance! So now she was going to be homeless!

Quality entertainment, y'all. I'm just saying that before any big trip, any research you do will not go to waste, and I have done A LOT of things in the name of NYC research... including every episode of Time of Your Life.

So, hey, here's how to do New York in a weekend.

Don't have a schedule. Have one thing that is a must do every day, and use the rest of the time for exploring, walking around, eating, shopping, and in general, being a tourist.

First, MegaBus. If you live on, or are traveling around, the Eastern US, you should try it. Round trip, two people, less than $150. Amazing. Also, WiFi, outlets, and double decker buses! Sitting up high was a great way to get a view of the city on the way in.

The only thing bad about MegaBus is that you will go for too many hours without sleep or a shower, and you will be grumpy in Times Square, and you will look like this.


My first day, the only thing I had to do was go to the TKTS booth and get cheap tickets to a show. PHANTOM! Touristy and lame. However, it is a classic for a reason, and I don't regret it for a second. Not a single person around us spoke English, and it was awesome.

The only thing I wanted to do on the second day was walk around Brooklyn and the Village. Check.

The last day, the only imperative was seeing the Park and going for a run. Done and done.

Tiny goals make you feel like the trip wasn't wasted, but still make it relaxing enough to actually enjoy it.

Things you should do in NYC: my list.

Brooklyn Flea. Indoors in the Winter. They're too cool  for you, but they will sell you lobster macaroni and cheese, so you will not mind a single bit.


Highline Park. An old, raised rail line is now a park with amazing views.


Shake Shack. There's always a line of tourists out the door. It's still worth it. I'm not even telling you how many shakes we bought in three days.

Brooklyn Bridge.


Maps for the lost.
The Better-Half


Dumbo
...wearing lots of layers.